Self Actualization: But Are You Having FUN?

They say it’s the little things in life that matter, and if you think about your most precious memories, you’ll know it’s true.  You probably can’t remember most of the Christmas gifts you gave in the last few years even though you agonized over the purchases at the time, but you can remember the way your little granddaughter tucked her head against her father’s cheek just as you snapped the picture in front of the Christmas tree.  You probably can’t remember the details of what you learned in your college courses, but you can remember the way a single professor changed your direction with a word, a look, or a powerful story.  You probably can’t remember what order the events took place during your wedding, but you can remember the look on your bride’s face as she said her vows. Read more

Positive Attitude: Can Holidays Become a Key Moment?

Are you reading this blog?  If you celebrate Christmas, reading blogs this week might be a stretch.  So, thanks, first of all, for taking the time.   Too many people are swept through this month in a tsunami of sparkling lights, gift deadlines and traffic jams.   Is this what we want Christmas to be like?  Do we really even have a choice? Read more

‘Tis The Season

My mother, who passed away seven years ago, has been on my mind these past several days. She loved this time of year—the decorations, the music, the meals, the shopping, the gift making and giving, the surprises and, perhaps most importantly, being with family at a special, even sacred season. Read more